Honestly, I doubt I can give a clear answer to that. There are a thousand possible reasons — and I don’t really want to offend anyone.
The real question is: how does this affect us women… or, well, me specifically?
That one’s easier to answer — it sucks.
You might say, “But why? That means you’re amazing — he just couldn’t handle how turned on you made him!”
Yeah, sure… let’s look at the bright side: yes, he was into me, and yes, whatever I was doing clearly worked 
But come on — we’re adults here. Can we please focus a bit on the state of affairs, literally?
In Gran Canaria, I ran into this situation more times than I’d like to admit — and I wasn’t exactly thrilled about it.
To be fair, I don’t like those marathon sessions that last for hours either.
I know, I know — nothing ever seems good enough for me.
But really, what happens in these cases?
I pick a guy, hunt him down, things start happening, I feel it’s going well, I give it my all — well, almostall, since I save the all for my husband — and then… it’s over.
But why? Or rather — why can’t he last longer?
And now here I am, totally turned on, and what the hell am I supposed to do with that?
I’ve got a few options:
•Finish what I started with my husband — let’s call him “Józsi, a.k.a. José.”
•Or invite in a new potential victim.
Usually, I go with the second option — I like giving others a chance too.
At least for another five minutes, because apparently that’s the theme of the night.
When the next “five-minute man” finishes his business, I usually turn to my husband and say, “Well, looks like tonight’s going down as a negative record.”
Anyway, new round. I feel like this one will go better — maybe he’ll be the highlight of the night.
And yes, he was.
Three minutes.
And yes, he came.
And yes, already.
And yes, in my mouth.
And yes, without even asking.
And yes, because he didn’t even have the time to ask.
That’s when I called it a night.
These young guys — sure, they’re ready to go again in ten or fifteen minutes — but I don’t choose them again.
I don’t care how many-minute records they plan to break next time.
I think everyone takes from swinging what they can, what they want, what they get… because expectations and reality don’t always match up.
But still — we should at least give back as much as we get.
This isn’t a one-way game. Let’s remember that — and respect it.
But hey, that’s just one opinion.
Mine.